In most things in life there are leaders and there are followers. By leaders, I'm not just talking about leaders of a country or the "big boss". I'm talking about doctors, teachers, pastors, parents ... Now patients and students aren't really "followers" I guess, but they do look up to those in leadership positions.
Here's my rant ... it's such an awesome task to be a leader. I look at "rate your Doctor" online and I hear so many bad things written about doctors. I hear people talk about how bad a teacher is or how someone in leadership could do a better job. I tell you there are some people out there that are doing a pretty crappy job. But you know what else? What an incredible responsibility! I have been in leadership and sometimes I liked it ... a lot. Sometimes I hated it! There is so much accountability and openess to be judged. Because someone is in a public eye they are free range to pass judgement on.
Nothing in particular has set off this little rant ... it's something I've been thinking about for awhile. I tell you, I would not want to be a Dr. Knowing you are making decisions that affect so many lives in such a huge way. Of course, being a Dr was not my calling in life. I think about teachers ... Parents can pass judgement at any time. I remember being a leader of a camp and HATING when I had to call a parent back. It was my responsibility to know what was going on and to answer for myself and everyone else.
Accountability is good .. we should always be striving to do our best, accept constructive critism and be proud of the decisions we make. I guess my heart just reaches out to people who put themselves in a place where they often wear a bull's eye on their chest. I suppose they know what they are getting into when they signed up.
For those who are doing their best to make a difference in other people's lives ... police officers, teachers, medical staff, politcal leaders, principal's, pastors, management teams .... thank you.
Thursday, December 29, 2011
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Christmas Holidays with the Dickeys
I can hardly believe that Christmas has come and gone. Seems like just yesterday we were making fun of people for decorating so early (sorry if that's you) and now its over. Maybe there is a reason people start celebrating so early ...
We had a wonderful Christmas. Pretty quiet. Just the four of us. JJ was pretty excited. Tee couldn't have cared less. We finally got her to open a gift and she was pretty excited she removed the paper. No interest in seeing what was inside the box! She did get a little penquin that has become her very best friend. It's kind of fun how it's the little things that got them excited. We didn't have a turkey dinner (that's coming on Friday), but I think JJ was in heaven because we let her have a bunwich and cucumber for both lunch and supper. Whoa! That's so cool! he he. She's so easy to please! It was nice to receive phone calls from family ... then a little Christmas bath and the kids were off to bed again. Doesn't take much to make them happy at this age.
It's kind of nice because it feels like Tee is finally acting like herself again. I guess Christmas can be a bit overwhelming. JJ is curled up watching Full House. When did she get so grown up? Wonder if she'll develop a crush on Uncle Jesse like the rest of us did.... So looking forward to our final celebration on Friday. Then the tree goes down and I begin my search for a recumbent bike. Back in the swing of things. Well, sort of. Haven't really shared too much with people, but things are going to be anything, but "back in the swing". Matthew will not be returning to his job. Tomorrow is his last day. Little scary, but we feel God's peace as we begin a new journey. Matthew's sister has also moved in with us. Our basement has been cleaned up (which is a miracle if you know what it looked like) and she has set up camp down there. What a huge blessing to have someone around to help!! It's been the easiest adjustment and we love having her here.
Well, that was our Christmas. Its been nice having the girls home and I think they've really enjoyed having a break. Tee slept until 11 yesterday! Hope you're enjoying your time off and if you're in our area ... hope you're enjoying all this white stuff!
We had a wonderful Christmas. Pretty quiet. Just the four of us. JJ was pretty excited. Tee couldn't have cared less. We finally got her to open a gift and she was pretty excited she removed the paper. No interest in seeing what was inside the box! She did get a little penquin that has become her very best friend. It's kind of fun how it's the little things that got them excited. We didn't have a turkey dinner (that's coming on Friday), but I think JJ was in heaven because we let her have a bunwich and cucumber for both lunch and supper. Whoa! That's so cool! he he. She's so easy to please! It was nice to receive phone calls from family ... then a little Christmas bath and the kids were off to bed again. Doesn't take much to make them happy at this age.
It's kind of nice because it feels like Tee is finally acting like herself again. I guess Christmas can be a bit overwhelming. JJ is curled up watching Full House. When did she get so grown up? Wonder if she'll develop a crush on Uncle Jesse like the rest of us did.... So looking forward to our final celebration on Friday. Then the tree goes down and I begin my search for a recumbent bike. Back in the swing of things. Well, sort of. Haven't really shared too much with people, but things are going to be anything, but "back in the swing". Matthew will not be returning to his job. Tomorrow is his last day. Little scary, but we feel God's peace as we begin a new journey. Matthew's sister has also moved in with us. Our basement has been cleaned up (which is a miracle if you know what it looked like) and she has set up camp down there. What a huge blessing to have someone around to help!! It's been the easiest adjustment and we love having her here.
Well, that was our Christmas. Its been nice having the girls home and I think they've really enjoyed having a break. Tee slept until 11 yesterday! Hope you're enjoying your time off and if you're in our area ... hope you're enjoying all this white stuff!
Sunday, December 18, 2011
Merry Christmas from us
Hello everyone!
I know, I know. You're all saying, "what! no Christmas card?" I have gone digital. Partially because it's easier, but mostly because it's one week until Christmas and I am just sitting down now to do this. First of all, we'd like to wish you all a very Merry Christmas.
A lot of you have followed me online so there shouldn't be anything overly surprising in this letter. If you're ever wondering, "what are those Dickeys up to?", you can visit our website at www.hopefuljourneyof4.
It's been an interesting and rewarding year! I look back over the year and wonder if we are the same family that started out the year 2011. Our birth certificates say we are the same people so here it is ...
Matthew is doing well. He's about to start an exciting journey in the new year. I won't say too much on here, but I'm sure he'll be sharing in the near future. He's still pretty cute, but there is the odd grey hair coming. Not sure which of us Dickey girls has caused it, but we love him all the same!
I'm doing well. Continuing my workouts and trying to stay as active as possible. I've had some discouragment over the year, but with the encouragement of my Dr and family I am as determined as ever. I've really enjoyed helping in JJ's class this year and pretty much enjoy being the Mama bear of this family.
JJ is the big 0-5 and she is awesomesauce. She's grown up a lot over the year. She's learning to read and write and taken a huge interest in geography ... she's her Mommy's girl. She got the intergrity award at her school and we are super duper proud of her. Must remember this on days she is giving us a run for our money!
Tee is doing so well in her new program. She was diagnosed in March with moderate-severe autism, but has only shown her amazing potential since that day. We are starting to hear a few words now and enjoy seeing how her mind works. She's a very smart 3 year old. Every day is a challenge, but she's still our delight.
Anyways, that's the 2011 Dickeys. Only God knows what's instore for 2012, but we trust he has great plans for us.
Love,
Matthew, Lisa, JJ and Tee
I know, I know. You're all saying, "what! no Christmas card?" I have gone digital. Partially because it's easier, but mostly because it's one week until Christmas and I am just sitting down now to do this. First of all, we'd like to wish you all a very Merry Christmas.
A lot of you have followed me online so there shouldn't be anything overly surprising in this letter. If you're ever wondering, "what are those Dickeys up to?", you can visit our website at www.hopefuljourneyof4.
It's been an interesting and rewarding year! I look back over the year and wonder if we are the same family that started out the year 2011. Our birth certificates say we are the same people so here it is ...
Matthew is doing well. He's about to start an exciting journey in the new year. I won't say too much on here, but I'm sure he'll be sharing in the near future. He's still pretty cute, but there is the odd grey hair coming. Not sure which of us Dickey girls has caused it, but we love him all the same!
I'm doing well. Continuing my workouts and trying to stay as active as possible. I've had some discouragment over the year, but with the encouragement of my Dr and family I am as determined as ever. I've really enjoyed helping in JJ's class this year and pretty much enjoy being the Mama bear of this family.
JJ is the big 0-5 and she is awesomesauce. She's grown up a lot over the year. She's learning to read and write and taken a huge interest in geography ... she's her Mommy's girl. She got the intergrity award at her school and we are super duper proud of her. Must remember this on days she is giving us a run for our money!
Tee is doing so well in her new program. She was diagnosed in March with moderate-severe autism, but has only shown her amazing potential since that day. We are starting to hear a few words now and enjoy seeing how her mind works. She's a very smart 3 year old. Every day is a challenge, but she's still our delight.
Anyways, that's the 2011 Dickeys. Only God knows what's instore for 2012, but we trust he has great plans for us.
Love,
Matthew, Lisa, JJ and Tee
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| Tee felt it was important for the shark to sing into the microphone for the pageant |
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| JJ did an amazing job singing |
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| Toe tapping Tootie |
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| Performing after the event |
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Every shade of pink
K guys, I am not a poet so please be gracious.
To my little girls
Each flower that you pick
Each butterfly you chase
I feel my heart changing
To every shade of pink
Each kiss you blow my way
Each bubble that you pop
I see my whole world change
To every shade of pink
Each time you grab my hand
You lead me to your heart
And there I let my life
Turn every shade of pink
The tutu on your head
Smudged lipstick on your lips
Make me want to kiss you
'Til you're every shade of pink
~Mama~
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